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Change Your Limiting Beliefs Today

Changing our limiting beliefs requires going deeper than our conscious thought processes and speaking directly to our subconscious mind.

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The Effect of our Beliefs on our Body

Our beliefs drive our behaviour and are stored within our subconscious programmes. In this post, we looked at how our physical health is impacted by our beliefs. If these subconscious beliefs are based on false or outdated data, they become limiting beliefs that prevent us from living life to the fullest.

Our beliefs create the biochemical environment that instruct our cells how to behave, either in "growth" or "protection" mode. Ideally we want to create a biochemical environment that encourages "growth" mode so that we can be healthy. To do this we need to run subconscious programmes driven by positive beliefs.

The problem is that our subconscious programmes are often driven by limiting beliefs which create an unhealthy biochemical environment in the body.

Belief Changing Techniques are helpful to positively reprogramme the subconscious.

Understanding the Role of our Subconscious

It is estimated that our subconscious mind is responsible for about 95% of our responses and behaviour. It is very intelligent and like a “GoPro” camera it records everything that happens in life. It uses these recordings to learn, and based on this it writes software programmes for living.

The programmes are designed to help us, to operate in the background without requiring conscious thought, so we can get on with the business of living. For example it controls all of our automatic behaviours such as breathing and keeping our heart pumping, unfortunately it controls our automatic “fly off the handle when a wet towel is left on the floor” programme too.

Let's look at an example. Have you ever had the experience of driving somewhere, but when you arrive at your destination you have no clear recollection of how you got there? You were so lost in thought while driving that your conscious awareness was more occupied with thinking than driving, so your subconscious immediately jumped into action to help. It took over the task and began running the "drive car" programme for you.

From this example can see that when we are engaged in thought, our subconscious ends up in control of our behaviour. Think about how often are we engaged in thought, this is how often our subconscious and subconscious beliefs run our life!

The data that forms limiting beliefs is often outdated because we're just young children when we learn most of the programmes that run our adult lives. Up until about age 7, our brains operate in the hypnotic and impressionable Theta brainwave. This Theta state allows our subconscious mind to absorb and learn quickly, but often it learns warped or limiting beliefs which are carried into adulthood. After age 7, consciousness emerges more fully and we learn through repetition.

This provides us with two ways to access the subconscious mind and reprogramme negative beliefs:

  1. The hypnotic Theta state.

  2. Through repetition.

Tools to Help Change Limiting Beliefs

I’d like to share my favourite two tools to help you change your limiting beliefs. The first is Creative Visualisation which is powerful when used in the Theta state. The other is Affirmations which work tremendously well with repetition, and suit those who struggle with visualisation. Many people don’t get the success they desire with affirmations because they are practising the technique incorrectly. I’ll explain exactly how to create an affirmation that works, but first let’s look at Creative Visualisation.

Creative Visualisation in the Theta state.

With this method the subconscious is delivered new, empowering messages through imagery and most importantly emotion. You may embrace your creativity to create your own visualisations, or find guided visualisations that suit your needs.

This technique takes longer to perform than affirmations, but if you can use your imagination you will find it very enjoyable and well worth the effort. A Theta brainwave and deep relaxation can be induced using progressive relaxation, breathing exercises or meditation. Once the Theta state has been achieved, communication with the subconscious mind can begin.

Speaking to the subconscious mind involves using your imagination to create a vision of your desired reality. Engaging all of your senses, create a scene that is rich in detail and charged with positive emotion. Act as if the scene is real and the subconscious perceives it as so. The subconscious uses these Creative Visualisations in the same way that it used its earlier “GoPro” recordings, to learn and create an automatic response. We become hard-wired towards these positive emotions!

A level of repetition is required using this method too, but you will find that it quickly reprogrammes the subconscious mind.

Affirmations with Repetition

Remember that repetition is one of two ways to reach the subconscious. Positive affirmations become mantras you can chant throughout your day. The result is subconscious reprogramming with affirmations over time.

An affirmation that is actually going to change your beliefs needs to be structured in a way that the subconscious mind understands. It needs to speak the same language, and that is through feelings and imagery.

It helps to think of your subconscious like your computer - you need to tell it which programme to run, so your affirmation is like a well designed software programme that looks good and feels great!

In designing your ideal programme your affirmation must:

Be worded positively

Give your subconscious a positive command by stating what you do want, not what you don’t want. You wouldn’t tell your computer “don’t open Chrome” when you want Spotify to open, you’d tell it to “open Spotify”.

Be stated in the first person

“I am” statements speak powerfully to your subconscious mind transforming the affirmation into an Identity statement. These kinds of statements provide a high level of motivation for change.

Be stated in the present tense, as if it already is

Quite simply your subconscious doesn’t ‘think’. It won’t question your assertion. If you tell it “run this programme now” it will. It’s your conscious mind that feels silly doing it, but it’s the subconscious that’s driving the car most of the time, so we’ll speak to the subconscious.

Be filled with emotion

Emotions are the language of the subconscious. Filling your programme with positive feelings that get you charged and excited help your subconscious recognise the triggers for opening that programme.

Now you know how to create powerful affirmations, it’s time to apply them. Again and again and again…

While repetition alone will work, I have found that it is helpful to repeat them when doing mundane, auto-pilot tasks that have typically put me in a Theta state (such as washing dishes, showering, after meditation). This amplifies their power and promotes faster change by directly accessing my subconscious mind.

Change your Limiting Beliefs Today

Living consciously “in the now”, keeping your hands on the driving wheel, is the best way to avoid living from your subconscious programming.

Awareness is the first step. Begin to notice the times you’ve slipped into a negative automatic response without even realising.

When you’ve become aware of the limiting belief programmes you’re running, you can choose one or both of the belief changing tools above to change anything you don’t like!

If you'd like help settling into a relaxed theta brainwave, or if you'd like energetic support releasing all that doesn't serve you, I'm here to help.

With love and gratitude,



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